I am a 38 year old, 130 lbs. female diagnosed with moderate to severe sleep apnea in 2007. I have considered UPPP as recommended by my ENT and decided major surgery as the first line of attack is not the way to go. Plus I harbor doubts about the effectiveness and the side effects. Overall, I am just not ready to take such a radical step and go through a two week or more ordeal of a lot of pain. So my ENT sent me to a dental sleep specialist in the area who appears to be tops in this field - he invented the appliance he prescribes for his patients. I have been precertified by BC/BS - my insurer - for treatment. However, BC/BS is unable to tell me how much of this they will cover - even after providing them with the procedure code. The doctor does not currently contract with BC/BS so he may charge more than BC/BS covers for the appliance - and the difference would be up to me to make up. Plus, they may treat it as out-of-network. The upshot is - I don't know how much of the $3000 charge I will be reimbursed for.
My problem is my husband who is less than supportive. He is very upset about the fact that we could end up paying 1/2 or even more out of pocket for this. I very much want to work with this doc so I get the best, most knowledgable care. I was very impressed with him and how he was able to tell me why I have suffered for so many years (I have two ugly allergic shiners and I am tired all the time) - lack of oxygen during day (because I am a mouth breather and my nasal passageways are obstructed) and night (OSA).
Last night we saw an infomercial for a oral device that is supposed to cure snoring - all for the low, low price of two payments of $29.95. give me a break. well my husband and I got into a huge screaming match - he thinks I should try the device you can get from the 1-800 number instead of plunking down $3000 with the specialist. what kind of an idiot would treat a serious condition like OSA with something you see in an infomercial!?!?!
I am looking for help and support in convincing my husband he is an utter fool - and that it is paramount that I see not just a general practice dentist - but rather a specialist in sleep dental medicine. HELP!!!! (sorry for the long post)

